Women, do you know what men do so much better than us overall? They shut out the rest of the world when it is time for sex!
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We women, on the other hand, can get very distracted during sex, which is one of the reasons that we don't get aroused or have orgasms as easily.
Our distraction during sex is not surprising.
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This slut-shaming causes us to turn off our connection to our sexuality and desire which makes it very hard to get excited during sex. In our practice as sex and relationship therapists, we help women get reconnected to their sexuality and desire all the time.
In our work we have found that, in order for you to get turned on and have intense orgasms, you need to get into your body, allow your arousal to rise and fall, and focus on sexy thoughts and fantasies. If you are Need extreme pleasure check this out passively for your partner to excite you, you might just wait forever. With these Need extreme pleasure check this out tools, you can take matters into your own hands!
When women first start engaging in sex, we usually go quickly into trying to connect with and please our partners before we even connect to ourselves and our own body. When you start having sex, you need to get into yourself. This might sound selfish, but since your arousal is the biggest gift you can give to your partner during sex, getting into yourself first is actually quite generous.
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Finally, start to move otu body and make sounds in ways that enhance your pleasure and engagement. If you really want to get hot during sex you can begin feeding yourself with images and stories that get your juices flowing. The more you think about sex the more you want it.
One of the most effective ways you can start thix yourself fully engaged in sex is by finding out what turns you on and asking for it or thinking about it when you are begin engaging in sex. So where can you find these sexy stories, images and ideas?
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You might also check out some real-life women's fantasies in Women on Top by Nancy Friday. Once you have a good idea of what turns you on, tell your partner or share some scenes and stories -- you can do this in bed or as a warm-up before you even get started! In bed, we often compare ourselves Need extreme pleasure check this out men and think that we should just get aroused and that our arousal should build steadily until we orgasm.
The truth is, women's arousal takes some time to get started and goes up and down during a sexual experience. If we don't get worried or preoccupied when it goes down, it can come right back up! Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to you.
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